Changing the way you think can be a game-changer in your quest to be assertive.
The way we think can make or break us in life. For example, if you think you’re going to be successful, odds are, you will become successful. This also goes for those who think they won’t succeed. Chances are you’ve already given up before you’ve even started. If you’re serious about wanting to change the way you think in order to be assertive, then consider joining the Assertiveness and Self-Confidence Training Course from PD Training in Hong Kong.
Think Positive
Thinking positive is a great start to get to where you want to be. This can really improve the way you see yourself and what
you need to do to be successful. You see, thinking positive invites positive things to happen and same goes for negative thinking. Which one would you rather have?
You Can’t Please Everybody
Trying to please everyone is akin to fighting a losing battle. You’ll never be able to please everybody no matter what you do. Regardless of what you say or do, you’re bound to upset a few people and you know what? It’s absolutely fine. As much as we all hate conflict, it’s better to have conflict than a lot of frustrations because you never got to do what you really wanted. If you avoid telling people how you feel, you’ll always be ignored and you’ll probably hate yourself in private.
Be Accountable
Stop passing the blame towards others. A confident person knows when to admit he made a mistake. This is very important because most people think that their unhappiness comes from other people or situation that is out of their control. This is not true. All they need to do is open up to get the ball rolling. Once they’ve started a conversation, they could now start to make their thoughts known. You can’t wait for everyone else to catch up with you or make the first move. Have the initiative to make things happen in your favour or else nothing will happen.
Let Go of Fear
Let go of your fear. This is a must because this fear that you have in you is the fear that is preventing you from changing yourself for the better and succeeding in life. You might be afraid of what would happen if you say or do something. Remember that you will never find out if you keep quiet. Open up and let people know what you want.
With the help of PD Training in Hong Kong, you will surely be able to change your ways and be a more assertive person who not only gets what you want but, more importantly, what you deserve.
PD Training delivers thousands of professional development courses each year in Hong Kong so you can be assured your training will be delivered by a qualified and experienced trainer.
All public Assertiveness & Self Confidence Training courses include am/pm tea, lunch, printed courseware and a certificate of completion. Customised courses are available upon request so please contact pdtraining at [email protected] to learn more.